Living with Colon Cancer

When a person is diagnosed with colon cancer, everything changes. First, there is the fear of suffering and death that accompanies such a diagnosis. In addition to the impending doom a person who is diagnosed with a deadly disease feels, there are the added fears about their families and finances. Questions are raised such as who will care for their children or pay their hospital bills while they are hospitalized. These are very valid concerns. It is hard enough to battle a disease such as cancer, without all of these added worries. It is very important for someone who is ill to feel peace of mind. They must be able to focus on their health and taking good care of themselves. While the following may not fix everything, it may help a patient at least sort through some of the problems they are dealing with.

Step One: Stay Calm and Have Positive Thoughts

It is very frightening to learn you have cancer. You will be flooded with a million concerns. You may even begin to panic. Try to remember that with modern technology and medical advancements, many people are treated successfully and make full recoveries. A cancer diagnosis is not by any means a sentence to death. Try to relax as much as possible and keep your thoughts on positive things. You’ve heard it said that the mind is very powerful. This is not an understatement. Studies have shown higher success rates in people who chose to take a positive approach to their illness. See yourself healing and going on with your life. Try to utilize some good meditation tapes with calming sounds. Prayer and positive thinking are key in recovering from an illness such as cancer.

Step Two: Talk to Doctors

Do not be afraid to ask your doctors any questions you may have. This is your body and your illness, you have a right to know exactly what to expect. If there is something about your treatment plan that you don’t understand then ask. This is your life and you have a right to feel peace of mind about every aspect involved with the way you are being treated. If there is something about the way you are being treated that you are uncomfortable with, tell your doctor. It is important that your medical team keep you informed. Doctors, nurses, and other members of the health care team can answer questions about treatment, working, or other activities.

Step Three: Social Workers

If you have financial concerns or you are worried about caring for your family, many times a social worker can help direct you to an agency that can assist you. There are many government funded programs available to people who cannot afford to pay for medical bills or provide for their families. Find out what options are available to you and your family at a time like this. If you have dependent children, try contacting your local Department of Children and Family Services office. You may also qualify for assistance with your medical bills. Often, a social worker can suggest resources for financial aid, transportation, home care, or emotional support to help those living with colon cancer maintain their normal lives as much as possible.

Living with colon cancer is not easy. After a colon cancer diagnosis, people may worry about caring for their families, keeping their jobs, or continuing daily activities. Meeting with a social worker, counselor, or member of the clergy can be helpful, and there are support groups that can also help those living with the disease. Groups may offer support in person, over the telephone, or on the Internet; so there is no reason to go through it alone.